Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Wapakmania

With all the fuss the whole country is giving (not that he doesnt deserve it, he does, really!), like Mrs. T (the baghag), i wanna talk about the miss behind the champs life.

Everyone wishes for her own fairytale. That somehow, someday, someone will sweep you off your feet and be the knight without the armor. For a kid, she wants someone cute. For a teenager, he has to be Mr. Quarterback. For an adult, someone mature. For the unfortunate, someone rich.

As for me, he has to be cute, mestiso, tall, may angas, kind and respectful. But Ive proven, if youre liking someone, all your criteria vanish into thin air. Puff!! It doesnt matter what he looks like. As long as, hes not super di kinakaya. And pala, he has to be, japorms and hindi DH. rotflmao! Seriously, respect should be there at all times, no matter what.

All the physicality talk behind, lets have a rundown financially.

Is Miss J happy? I mean, deep down and from the heart?

Is having a golden husband worth it?

Miss J can have all the Birkins, Channels and LVs she wanna have, jewels, cars, houses, maids... all the best things that money can buy. All, except loyalty.

Is it worth smiling for?

What about, can you watch your husband, the love of your life being beaten down or beating someone up to earn a living?

Are all the bad-hype making you feel proud?

Are you happy seeing your mom in law being the countrys laughing stock?

Can they still be your friends if youre poor and starving?

I particularly like DJ Moe's take on the subject - "Should you expect LOYALTY if youre married to a rockstar? Isnt it to be assumed that there is no way a guy can remain faithful if his life is drastically changed for the better?"

Well, i guess, we are not Hannah Montana. We cant have the best of both worlds. Its a state of being. Its a matter of accepting what we have and what we dont have. Its a matter of making amends and feeling good about it.

Its not about being, youre-rich-but-youre-miserable-youre-poor-but-happy perception. Its about those two individuals building a life together. They may come from two different worlds, but if they think and love together with respect included, those two can make it into one spinning world.

Life is a choice. Its not a dress rehearsal. We make it happen.

Till then, XOXO

1 comment: